Questions to ask your girlfriend about her people and yours

A lot of a relationship happens around other people. These questions ask how she sees the friends you share, the ones she had to warm up to and how you change around certain people. Her answers will tell you as much about you as about her.

Good for the drive home from a party or a quiet night in. Ask one, then let her ask you the same one back.

1. What were you nervous about before meeting my friends?
2. Which of my friendships surprised you at first?
3. Which of my friends did you like least at first?
4. Which of my friends could you spend a whole afternoon with without needing me there?
5. Who brings out a different side of me?
6. Which of our friends would you like to see more often?
7. Which friendship takes the most effort to keep going?
8. Which of our friends would be hardest to surprise with a party?
9. Who would you call if we needed a favor at midnight?
10. What do you notice about how I act when we're alone together?
11. What do you want to talk about on the way home from a party?
12. What generous thing have you done that you felt good about?
13. Which of my hobbies would you like to understand better?
14. Who do I become unusually formal around, even though I know them well?
15. Who makes me laugh the most?
16. Would you ask your friends why they met up without you?